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parent should read this Super interesting, very easy read, Lots of great info and a good reminder of the stuff talked about at Beer amp Bubs, Kinda feel like a second read through would be a good idea, so many little things to pick up on,

Five for now, hopefully the same after the baby arrives! As a first time father there are plenty of positives to take out of this book.
The detailed runthrough from late pregnancy to breastefeeding has left me feeling far more prepared and knowledgeable about what's in store, And the stories from a range of different men who had completely varied birthing experiences with their partners was a great touch.


However I have to give thisas the author's condescending tone and heavyhandedness in making her point makes it frustrating to read at times.
Her opinions can really come on strong and I can't help but feel a bit of "womansplaining" you silly men have no common sense so I need to tell you what to do.


For example:
Recommending that men take the permanent role of nappy changingof the time, just because she says so.

Reiterating more than once about keeping your mouth shut and not being a cheerleader in the birthing room,
Suggesting that new mothers will more likely considering resuming their sex life with you if you do housework,
"This would be a bad time to suggest your partner "relax", you deserve to be clobbered if you suggest it, "

There are quite a few anecdotes of "Neanderthal men" making poor choices that the poor birthing woman had to endure.
The aim seems to be to poke fun rather than get to the heart of why men in birthing suites are the way they are.
This is not

really the way to empowerst century men to be active and involved fathers,

Also there are some annoying contradictions that say a lot about the author, In the first chapter she gushes about completing a home birth while hosting a rollicking Christmas party:
"Eventually I got dressed in my party outfit again, bundled up my baby and went out to have a glass of champagne with our friends and family.
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But at the end of the book she firmly warns male partners not to allow their parents the dreaded inlaws in to steal away precious early bonding time, which "should not be shared.
" She then relates a story from her time as a doula trying to shoo away excited grandparents:
"I wanted to tell them to go home and knit something"

Now as a lates teacher I'm probably not the target audience the book is a companion to the "Beers and Bubs" program for expectant fathers, but a bit more respect for the reader would be appreciated.


And for the record, I hate "mansplaining" as much as I do "womansplaining", even if birthing babies is typically seen as a "woman's domain".
Excellent book for dads. In fact, it's an excellent, easy reading book for everyone, It's helping my husband to be a better support person for the birth of our second baby,

Highly recommended to any first time parents, or parents looking for a better birth for second or subsequent babies, I'm not sure that anything can really prepare you for being their for the birth of your child, Its out of this world, But I did find this book an excellent starting point, Highly recommend it for all those dads to be out there, Discover how to play an active role in the birth of your baby, Learn the secrets to success from other men who have been through the gates of fatherhood before you and start your role as a dad in the best way possible.


Cheers to Childbirth is written specifically for men to give them the practical knowledge they need to support their partner through childbirth and in the months thereafter.


Cheers to Childbirth also features candid birth stories told by some of Australia's best known fathers: former world champion surfer Mark Occhilupo, threetime world champion boxer Danny Green, radio and TV presenter Adam Spencer, news presenter Mark Ferguson, neurosurgeon Dr Charlie Teo, blind Paralympian and adventurer Gerrard Gosens and Olympic rower James Tomkins, to name a few.
Whenever I hear of a young couple beginning their journey of parenthood, my first thing to do is order a copy of sitelinkLucy Bloom fantastic sitelinkCheers to Childbirth: A Dad's Guide to Childbirth Support! Often young men are not really interested in reading but when they realise it not only has factual information in an informal language, it also includes the birth stories of men who they have admired from afar, they are tempted to read further.

Women often read everything they can find about what is happening to their bodies as they make another little human but men are often left on the sidelines feeling a bit useless.
This book gives them the confidence to be a real partner through the process and the knowledge to feel they can be a great support and understanding of what is happening with the mother of their child.
A great basis for becoming involved and interested Dads! sitelinkCheers to Childbirth: A Dad's Guide to Childbirth Support LUCY BLOOM is an international keynote speaker and consulting CEO with a background in advertising and international aid.
She was born in Africa but grew up in Australia, She is the mother of three teens and lives by the beach in Sydney, Lucy is an Ambassador for Australia Reads, is a member of the Australian Society of Authors, the Australian Writers Guild and the Country Womens Association.
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