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read this book with a group of people and we had a good time discussing the various chapters and pinpointing where we were strong and where we were weak.
Maxwell always uses great analogies and stories and his books are always filled with good lessons you can use later, This book is no exception, كتاب ملهم ومفيد بشكل استثنائي!

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"إن رقم واحد رقم أصغر كثيرا من ان يتمكن من تحقيق العظمة بمفرده"
"بواسطة الكلمة الطيبة والسلطة يمكنك تحقيق أكثر مما ستحققه بالكلمة الطيبة وحدها"
"عندما يصبح التلاميذ مستعدين سوف يظهر المعلم"
"العلاقات تساعدنا على معرفة من نحن وما الذي نتحول إليه"
"العظماء حقا يجعلونك تشعر بأنك يمكن ان تصبح عظيما"
"يمكن لأي شخص أن يتعاطف مع معاناة صديق ولكن التعاطف مع نجاحات صديق أمر يتطلب طبيعة مرهفة حساسة للغاية"
"لا أحد يصبح ثريا إلا إذا أثرى الاخرين"
"تسلل إلي قلوب الناس"
"ليس الهدف من الحياة هو الفوز الهدف في الحياة هو أن تنمو وتشارك "
"الشمعة لا تخسر شيئا عندما تضيء شمعة أخرى"
"عندما يحبك شخص ما بدون شروط وبدون مصلحة شخصية يكون هذا هو الشيء الأكثر روعة على الإطلاق"

الشمعة لا تخسر عندما تضيء شمعة أخرى
توماس جيفرسون
, من اجمل الحكم التى استعان بها ماكسويل فى كتابه Poor.
I couldnt finish it, I thought I had bought a book from Maxwell, not a compilation of quotes from other authors, Great book! I learned quite a deal from it, He touches on some important and useful life lessons in terms of relationships and daily interactions, Read it if you don't easily take to people generally speaking or often find yourself in negative dysfunctional relationships, And read it

even if neither one of those applies, There was a lot of good wisdom in this book, There were also many examples and memorable illustrations, I find John Maxwell's books easy to remember, He puts his lessons in easy to process ways, Some people don't like that, but I think it's helpful, The sage wisdom of J Max is found in every page of this book, and every person from all walks of life will benefit from the plethora of relational truths contained in these pages.
I will be refencing and rereading this book for the rest of my life, This would be a great resource for every position of leadership from supervisor to CEO to implement both for him or her self both personally or corporately.
Great book if you are a married American male with kids,
“A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend a successful woman is one who can find such a man.
” This quote comes from the section of the book in which the author demonstrates that men and women are different,

My manager recommended this book to me so I diligently read it, Examples are either based on American baseball facts, American history, husband / father situations, Through the book, there is only a handful of examples portraying women: female students in need of a man to be their better self, a famous actress living a life of addiction and sadness.
The mention of the female Filipino president is about how she appreciates the author and his mentorship, The only portrayed female who is successful on her own and doesnt serve a purpose in connection with the author is a high school teacher.
Probably the only roles female are authorized to succeed in on their own in our society
Surely the topics covered are interesting but I wished my male manager had heard of a more relatable source of inspiration for me.
I wasn't surprised when the author revealed that he is a devout Christian the takeaway from this short book is that if you will win with people if you are a good, honest, and generous person.
That's a better message than the list of psychological tricks I anticipated, but I can't say I really learned anything new, The nonstop anecdotes felt a bit formulaic, and some didn't make sense to me: A man slipped another less fortunate dadto help buy circus tickets.
So we should give others money in order to "Win" with them and make them like us Not sure, Typical Maxwell : All advice is good and sound, but not much new to take away, I did like a new phrase though, that I havent heard others using: “Emotional fitness”, FITNESS! It is never enough to reach a high emotional/mental level, but you have to keep on practicing it, exercising, If not, You will slide back and get emotionally/mentally “Fat” again, Lets keep ourselves fit, people! : Oh, and another thing adding to others peoples lives can not be done by accident, We can damage relationships by accident easily, but adding is deliberate practice with the specific aim, You can not build a nice sandcastle by accident, But you sure can destroy one by accident, So if You dont know if you add to other peoples lives, then you probably arent doing it! Its a deliberate effort, Get at it! Former pastor turned leadership guru, John C, Maxwell is known for his insight and experience when it comes to the business industry, What I find helpful is Maxwells teachings are applicable to other environments such as church, small groups, and relationships, Hisrelease Winning With People specifically deals with relationships, Quite frequently the mindset of the business world is “What can I do to get ahead” or “How can I succeed” Maxwell challenges the reader to think outside of the box and change his or her thoughts to “How can I help others succeed” Read my entire review at: sitelink commaxw A great book with valuable insight on how to interact with people, Not only does it teach you valuable tricks to appear friendlier, but the author notes many times that being a genuinely nice person who cares about others goes a long way.
He gives practical, implementable methods to be better, The book also helps you understand the motivations of others, and gives you the freedom not to take everything personally, Ask the successful CEOs of major corporations, entrepreneurs, top salespeople, and pastors what characteristic is most needed for success in leadership positions, and they'll tell youit's the ability to work with people.


Some people are born with great relationship skills, but those who are not can learn to improve them, In Winning with People Maxwell has translated decades of experience intoPeople Principles that anyone can learn,

Maxwell has divided the People Principles in this book according to the questions we must ask ourselves if we want to win with people: Readiness: Are we prepared for relationships Connection: Are we willing to focus on others Trust: Can we build mutual trust Investment: Are we willing to invest in others Synergy: Can we create a winwin relationship

Each section contains guiding People Principles.
Some are intuitive, such as The Lens Principle: Who We Are Determines How We See Others, Others may go against your instincts, such as The Confrontation Principle: Caring for People Should Precede Confronting People, All of them arepercent practical! It's a good book with a lot of valuable information and perspective, However, the organization of the book intoquestios is okay, It did confuse me a bit due to the similarities of chapters/ principles from different questions, I was expecting a more straightforward approch, Still a good book though, I like John Maxwell, but if your going to read a book on winning people, read dale Carnegies How To Win Friends And Influence People.
If you already read the book and are tempted to read Maxwells book next, . . don't. Instead reread Dale Carnegie. Read in Mandarin the author includes a clear list of principles and give plenty of examples, Overall, the book teaches you on how to know and trust yourself, and then build your relationships, And remember, people are the most important and more important than a lot of matters most of the time, The author outlines several principles that are important if one wishes to establish and maintain positive relationships with people whether in the workplace or life.
While may appear to be common sense, I have found in my own experience just how much some people lack selfawareness and empathy towards others.
This book could be quite helpful for those that need help in the "people department",

Key Takeaways
Selfawareness is important the way people see others is a reflection of themselves,
Each person we meet has the potential to teach us something,
You cannot have growth without change,
Being at ease with yourself makes others feel at ease with you,
Caring for people should precede confronting people validate people's feelings,
When connection is difficult, you must find one thing that you two have in common or agree upon,
In great relationships, the joy of being together is enough, Relationships we have them in every area of life both personally and professionally, Who doesn't want to win with people I have never met a better connector with people than John, so I can't think of a better person to write about how it's done.
If YOU want to win with people, this book is your how to guide, : Read it again and again and again! : Muy buen libro, aún que a mi parecer es muy parecido al libro de Dale Carnegie, tiene mucho conceptos de el, pero refuerza mucho una vez leído el libro de Dale, creo que es muy bueno y refuerza más tu conocimiento de como influir en las personas y como ganartelas.
أهم نقط لفتت إنتباهى فى الكتاب ده
الصبر. . وإختلاف منظرونا للموقف والعلاقة
يعنى اى حاجة مهمة فى حياتنا محتاجة صبر عشان تكمل وكذلك العلاقات لازم نصبر على ups amp downs عشان نوصل لعلاقة ناجحة
كمان لو حصل حاجة تضايق بين شخصين لازم النظرة للموقف متكونش اد النظرة للعلاقة القايمة لأن العلاقة دايما هى اللى لازم تكسب
الموقف يتشاف على اده وياخد حجمه الطبيعى ومنكبرش المواضيع
مهم برضو نحافظ على ثباتنا الانفعالى فى علاقاتنا مع اللى حوالينا
I've read other books by Maxwell, There was a man in my church who suggested I read a book by John Maxwell, I trusted his opinion so I did, Then I decide to read another, I read another and when this 'unofficial spiritual mentor' of mine asked me what I thought, I was afraid to say anything, Turns out he even believed "if you've read one John Maxwell book, you've pretty much read them all, " Epigraphs in the little book on teamwork include quotes by himself, that was a turnoff Other books, I can't even remember the titles unless I look them up by author name,

I know he's popular and is considered a leadership guru, He does offer a great deal of sound advice from years of experience as a pastor and leader, He mentions having been mentored himself, I believe he is a man integrity, He's even funny at times, However, I won't spend more time reading another leadership book by him, Very gentle approach to friendly, kind ways to interact with others, Discussescentral concerns: readiness, connection, trust, investment and synergy, Lots of examples and questions bring points home,

Readiness who we are determines how we see others, know yourself first, hurting people hurt people, never hammer someone, we can lift up or take people down

Connection entire world, except, is composed of others put ourselves in our place not others each person has potential to teach us something people are interested in others who are interested in them believing the best of others usually brings out the best of people caring precedes confronting others

Trust foundation of any relationship never let situation mean more than relationship when bob has a problem with everyone, bob is usually the problem being at ease with self helps other be at ease with us when preparing for battle, dig a hole big enough for a friend

Investment all relationships need cultivation findwe agree on and focuson it journey with others is slower than journey alone celebrate success of friends take higher road when interacting with others

Synergy when we help others, we help ourselves people work well with others they like working together increases odds of winning together joy of being together as bottomline Common sense stuff in analogies that resonate

Some Takeaways / nuggets
Being at ease with yourself allows others to be at ease with you.

Every person in a company confronted with a person sharing a problem lit match has two buckets, water and petrol, Be the change you want to see,
Find thein common and give it
People are interested in people who are interested in them,
Entretenido, lleno de historias y ejemplos históricos y personales, es una obra que si lees con detenimiento y con frecuencia transformará tus relaciones.


Todos estamos llamados a tener relaciones, pues somos seres sociales, somos seres que necesitamos de otros, y sin importar si somos más introvertidos como yo por ejemplo, o sumamente extrovertidos, debemos aprender como ganar en las relaciones.


Pero ganar no es ganar para mí, es ganar para el otro, es ganar para generar impacto, es ganar para disfrutar, es ganar para ir al siguiente nivel.
Por eso este libro es tan importante, pues te permite ver las relaciones con la motivación adecuada,

Desde el primer principio hasta el último, este libro revoluciona tu mente de una forma especial, Obra extraordinaria, así de sencillo,

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الاستعداد لبناء العلاقات والتركيز على الآخرين,
بناء الثقة المتبادلة.
الاستثمار في الآخرين.
ومن ثم ستنال ما ترغب به وهو الفوز مع الناس.

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