Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help their Partners Heal by Carol Sheets

Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help their Partners Heal Reviews

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  Wilse

  Useful for those who need support in this area. However, some of the exercises which the author has copyrighted appear to have been around for a long time and used by Relate Therapists for many years , she just renames them.
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  Rosalie matys

  Not an easy subjectWell written very helpful
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  Rainy Day Reader

  This product uses the pro dependance model of recovery. This is a "softened" often contradictory form of Co dependentcy developed by Robert Weiss. Which means that the beliefs are outdated & frequently trumatizing to the betrayed spouse or partner who has already delt with infidelities & frequently repeated sexual betrayals and abuse! Possible triggers, ment to use only with a therapist, not alone. Take what tool are applicable, understand that often it's Betrayal Trauma recovery the betrayed spouse is dealing with, thus also emotional abuse! ~ also check out Lundy Bancroft, Affair Recovery interview with MJ, and Sarah Morale's on gaslighting. We all unintentionally do it to a degree!
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  Mike K

  If you want your spouse to learn how to “parrot” back your pain in a robotic way, then buy this book. My husband went through this material and actually demonstrates less empathy toward the effects his choices have had on our relationship.
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  Mjhorowitz

  This book is not useful unless you are a male sex addict who has been at it for a good chunk of time. I thought reversing the genders would be sufficient but it’s not