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much in there above the usual common sense, I had hoped there would be more tips/techniques La personne toxique peut être n'importe quelle personne ! Soit l'un des parents, un ami, un cousin, un enseignant.
Etc
Cette personne vous incite de faire des trucs que vous détester, elle essaye de vous mettre dans le pétrin pour assurer ses désirs ! Elle s'en fou totalement de vos désirs parceque elle est totalement égoïste.

Cette personne peut être identifier par ses défauts :
Septique,
Paranoïaque.
Hypocrite.
Mesquine.
injurieuse
Fourbe.
Sadique parfois.
violente.
négative.
Narcissique.
Contrôlant.
raciste.
Égoïste.
Dominante.

Si vous tomberez sur ses personnes là vous devez fuir le plus tôt possible, vous devez immédiatement couper les ponts qui mènent à eux.
Soyez sûr de ne pas éprouver des sentiments toxiques amer dans votre bouche, An interesting look at the various ways people make each other's lives difficult, Yes it's quite generalised and simplistic in parts and sometimes the "I know famous people" authorial stance is a little wearing.
However I found it an interesting read and well worth a look over,

It would be most useful to people writing interesting villans in stories, Some of the ways in which people annoy others were good and also the idea of one person's villan being another persons friend was also an interesting point, particularly for writers.


Overall, amusing but very general, probably most useful for writers, This is a great book for all walks of life, I read it because I dealt with a bad job situation and was looking for some more objective feedback, . . rather than deal with it, This book is actually really funny as well as instructive and helpful, Anybody interested in learning about their own as well as others' personality types which make you in particular cringe, read this book! This book helped me make some life decisions.
I was also able to learn some toxic behaviors that I might exhibit, The book just made me really aware of the types of people you encounter through life and how to deal with them.
It seems like I always have problems with the same kinds of toxic people, now I know how to handle them.
Based on the book everyone is toxic, It was too superficial and opinionated,
TOXIC SHIT ALERT! Negative if possible,
If you want to read a toxic book, go on, The only reason

I read that was because someone suggested to it many years ago and I was curious what was in this book torturing myself and at the same time laughing my ass off of all the idiotic shits that the writer was saying in the book.
This is THE guidebook to human relationships, It will give you the insight you need to determine who your friends truly are, It also give you the courage to eliminate the deadweight "friends" and family in your life, and get you on a path to a much happier, more relaxed you.
I think it has a lot of good advice, and the chapter for "Reinventing yourself" was a nice suprise,
For me it was a bit hard to go through this book, Maybe I just wasn't in the mood for so many Techniques, and be honest I skipped a couple of them :
I see this book as something that I could go back to if I ever have a situation I don't know how to handle.
This is a great book, My Aunt told me about it, It has really helped me realize why certain people are toxic to me, and how to deal with them,STARS! This book has a few good points, but overall, lots of it just seems, . . silly. The "Give Em Hell and Yell" technique, Really! If lots of these techniques for dealing with toxic people were actually utilized, I think lots of people would end up in jail or unemployed.
There are a few useful bits of advice and some techniques that can be adjusted to be user friendly, but overall, this was a super difficult book to wade through and I spent way too much time on it.
I was disappointed. This is one of the most beautiful books Ive ever read, It shows different aspects of toxic peoplebehaviour and it suggests solutions to deal with them, On the other hand, we are surrounded by different people in our life, especially when we meet new people, it helps us to see a clear picture of them.
I highly recommend this book, This is an incredible book that I recommend for everybody, It addresses "toxic" people and how to handle them, The key takeaway is that most of these people are not always toxic and it's not the case that everything about them is toxic it's just that some aspect of their behaviors can cause us distress or their relationship with us can cause us distress.
But, we may also encounter some people who are always this way in our interactions with them, In some cases, all we need to do is eliminate these people from our lives, But there are occasions that require us to deal with them, This book addresses how to deal with those situations, or rather, it addresses how we should cope with those situations.
Everyone should buy this book, Youll begin to see those difficult people differently, and you may even begin to secretly chuckle at them rather than become incensed at their predictable, destructive behavior.
This book is money well spent, If you dont want to buy it, go borrow it from your public library, but I am sure after you read it you will want to own it.
You shall be referring to it for years to come, I found this book rather silly and unrealistic, overall, This book had a good listing of all the different types of toxic people, I could have put names by the different types.
But in the end this was the only good part, The "solutions" for dealing with these people weren't realistic or just wouldn't work for me, Mi sono divertita moltissimo a leggere questo libricino di self help, anche se l'argomento trattato è piuttosto serio: come liberare la nostra vita da persone tossiche Toxic Persons è il titolo inglese, potenzialmente negative per il nostro benessere psicofisico.
La Glass, una psicoterapeuta, oltre a metterci in guardia sui pericoli anche seri, per la salute psichica e fisica, che sottostare passivamente a certi atteggiamenti tossici può causare, nel tempo, ci fornisce ampio campionario vere schede tipologiche di trenta nientedimeno “tipologie pestifere”, connotando ciascuna in maniera divertente e schematica:

I Critici Distruttivi
I Logorroici
Gli Autodistruttori
I Fuggitivi
Le Acque Chete
I Pettegoli
I Pugili Arrabbiati
Le Piaghe
I traditori Sorridenti
Gli inetti impauriti
Gli sfruttatori opportunisti
I prepotenti
I giovialoni
Le Frane
I casi mentali
I bugiardi
Gli impiccioni
Gli avari
I fanatici
I Narcisisti
I profittatori dolciastri
I perfetti
Gli snob
I concorrenti nati
I controllori fanatici
I Pubblici accusatori
I saccenti arroganti
Congelatori emotivi
I Paranoici scettici
Gli istigatori

Come dicevo, ciascuno è descritto in maniera molto divertente e precisa mentre carrellate di persone scorrono davanti ai nostri occhi, nel tentativo di classificarle in uno o nell'altro gruppo e nel dubbio che facciano parte di diversi, come in realtà spesso capita per ammisssione dell'autrice, timorosi di trovarci noi stessi in qualche gruppo, può essere anche un divertente gioco di società, ora che ci penso, es, prendiamo il Primo gruppo, i critici Distruttori:

“Si fanno a pezzi un sacco di amici le auto non fanno tante vittime quanto loro sono l'anima nera della compagnia hanno una lingua così tagliente che potrebbero tosare una siepe.
Il critico distruttivo è arrogante, meschino, sprezzante, petulante, astioso, ipocrita, condiscendente, superbo, insicuro, offensivo, critico, sarcastico, irrispettoso, infido e accusatorio, Hanno talmente poca stima di sé che troveranno da ridire su voi e su chiunque altro, Si eccitano a disprezzare e punzecchiare gli altri, . . ” E vai così.


La Glass ci invita a cercare di riconoscere tra queste tipologie conoscenti, parenti e tutta la nostra cerchia di conoscenze, compresi amici, colleghi, parenti vicini di casa ecc.
. . offrendo adeguati test.

Poiché trattasi di un libro di selfhelp, non può mancare la parte in cui si elargiscono consigli di tecnica di autodifesa psicologica per disinnescare tali mine umane.
Sono restata felicemente sorpresa nel constatare di possedere molte di queste tattiche per istinto e di averle, fortunata, potute applicare quando mi è capitato di trovarmi di fronte certe tossicità.
Alla base di questi comportamenti, la Glass rileve sempre due elementi: mancanza di autostima e senso di profonda inadeguatezza, da qui varie gamme di sentimenti rabbia, gelosia, inadeguatezza, frustrazione ecc.
. . che si traducono in comportamenti altamente tossici per gli altri ma anche per chi li prova,


All'autrice e a noi lettori non interessa disquisire sul Male è ontologico Ci sono persone malvage di natura Lo diventano per il loro vissuto, e perchè alcune sì e altre no.
A lei e a noi interessa schiacciare le zanzare!

Il libricino, dunque, è interessante perché pone l'attenzione su atteggiamenti distruttivi che prima o poi capitano nelle vite di ciascuno, vuoi in famiglia, al lavoro, nel campo delle amicizie o delle semplici obbligate frequentazioni.
Avendo a che fare con persone a noi dissimili tanto da esserci nocive, tutti sono d'accordo che la miglior cosa da fare sia tagliare ponti e rapporti, ma non avendo talvolta la possibilità di farlo e/o non avendo un carattere adeguatamente antimina, perché non ricorrere a qualche buon consiglio professionale Elargito facendo anche ridere, peraltro.


Io per mia parte, posso dire di esser stata talmente fortunata da aver già incontrato diverse “persone tossiche”, disinnescate in maniera un po' tranchant ma molto efficace, grazie la mio carattere sarcastico, alla bisogna, e affatto vittimistico ma piuttosto reattivo: un gesto girare i tacchi e una parola dieci lettere.
Resta sempre la miglior soluzione, Ce livre proposetechniqueschocs pour faire face à toutes ces personnes dont les reproches sont injustifiés et qui, jour après jour, vous empoisonnent lexistence.
En plus dillustrer clairement les problèmes physiques, psychologiques et émotionnels que peuvent causer ces rapports difficiles, lauteur nous aide à découvrir quelles sont, parmi nos relations, celles qui méritent dêtre réorientées et celles quil serait plutôt souhaitable de rompre de façon définitive.
This book was really helpful to me, If you have ever had or currently have a toxic person in your life, this book is for you, I was in a toxic situation with a toxic person and this book was my therapy, It really helped me to understand the particular toxic person that was in my life, It provides you with stratagies with how to deal with toxic people, Glass provides you with the different types of toxic people so you can see who exactly you're dealing with, I like that she is objective about the toxic situation making you consider your own actions and your role rather than just piling on the other person in a onesided manner.
Think of everyone who makes you miserable, Make two lists: toxic men in your life toxic women in your life, List the negative characteristics of each person, If you need some ideas, consult the author's list ofnegative traits, Do the toxic men and toxic women in your life share some of the same characteristics Bizarre, While I appreciate what the author was doing she had too many personalities for varying degrees of toxic personalities, Listening to the audiobook it was hard to keep track of the personalities and the tactics she would suggest, On the flip side there were some great nuggets and well written sentences and passages that I paused the audio to reflect on before continuing to listen.


So take this for what it is an author trying to be specific as possible to help readers.
While I found aspects of this book helpful, I found Dr, Glass' blatant shallowness a turn off at times, The whole section pertaining to how a person's looks/appearance being contributory to being toxic was downright irritating as I feel the focus ought to be on an individual's behavior and not what they look like.
I also felt that the piece on "Mental Cases" was rather offensive as labeling anyone with a mental illness further perpetuates the stigma that people with mental illness are forced to face in society.
Way to go on that one Dr, Glass

All in all, the coping exercises were useful and some of the anecdotes were amusing but I would never deign to say this woman is an expert on the subject of dealing with difficult people.
This book merely promotes intolerance and the labeling of people and, in some instances, shows that if you throw a big enough tantrum you're rewarded for petulant behavior the airline story.
This, in my opinion, is toxic behavior and Dr, Glass is likely a toxic person herself,/livre que je trouve intéressant mais techniques à la fin qui sont un peu simplistes pour que cela fonctionne avec certaines personnes I liked some things in the book.
She is very clear that one can never resort to violence in dealing with a toxic person, Her earnestness around creating a more peaceful world is admirable, Even though I'd have liked a bit more depth of analysis, I agree with her argument that people who behave in a toxic manner are generally insecure.
I liked how she took the ten techniques and showed the best people to use them with, depending on either the type of person they are, or their role in the reader's life.
I particularly liked her work on dealing with the anger and hurt of a toxic relationship and the chapter or revitalizing a toxic relationship.
The parts of the book I did like, however, suffered from the same simplicity as the rest of the book.


That said, overall I thought the book was a waste of my money, I could easily have taken it out of the library, read it in a day and returned it, Nothing in the book really stuck with me, The techniques she suggested have been described in better detail by other authors, I will concede that some of these strategies do work, I thought she advocated just cutting people out of one's life far too easily and frequently, Alot of the book seemed very judgemental, and Glass came across as condescending in parts,

The book is full of broad generalizations, Her descriptions of thedifferent types are far too short, As a result, I could make anyone fit into the category of a toxic person based on the way she's described them.
The fact that a person is annoying doesn't make them toxic,

In general, there are other books on the market that are far better at helping readers cope with difficult people.
I wouldn't put this one first on my list,

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