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This book consisted of a very sensitive hippo named Fragility, Fragility was often easily offended by good/bad comments that his peers made about him, In addition, it caused much disruption between him and his friends, Later on, Fragility came across an elephant named Rudy that was very rude, Rudy often insulted Fragility about his appearance, which cause Fragility to become fragile about comments, Until, one day fragility started to embrace his appearance and made the elephant realize that they have many similarities that Fragility was initially picked on about, Which in due time, Fragility started to take comments lightly and embraced himself, I think that this book would be a great book to read to the children, along with having them write in their journals about the similarities that one another have and following up with an out loud discussion.
I really liked the idea of this book but the execution needs work, But the drawings are super cute It was just OK, I would like to read it to my class to help illustrate how to handle sensitive personalities, I just think it will take a lot of guidance, The story missed the mark by itself, Lester, Helen Hurty Feelings, illustrated by Lynn Munsinger, PICTURE BOOK. Houghton Mifflin, Content: G.
Fragility is a solid piece of hippo, but is anyone tries to compliment her, she starts to wail and her feelings get hurt, taking everything the wrong way.
When a real bully comes in sight, Fragility realizes that she doesnt have to always cry, This is a good basic lesson for a look at hurt feelings, It talks not only about someone who allows their feelings to be hurt by friends who dont mean it, but also looks at someone who really is trying to hurt her.
Great to have on hand for a quick class lesson,
EL KESSENTIAL, Cindy, Library Teacher I am not sure what this book is trying to teach children, accept to be whiny, rude and a bully, How Fragility expresses her feelings isn't a healthy way to react or to over exaggerate her self deprecation, She then uses her 'feelings' as an excuse to be a bully, Nice humorous book about feelings, May be a pick for Preschool with a smaller group or as a long opener, The illustrations are absolutely charming and add so much to this book, I think that very young children will enjoy having this book read to them several times, and the book may give parents/preschool teachers an opportunity to talk about name calling and being overly sensitive.
However, one aspect of the story that seemed notquiteright was the young hippo's ability to feel some self confidence only after she called the elephant some names in return sturdy legs, pudgy, gray.
Fragility was solid, grey and big, She could do a lot of things, but when it came to compliments to her, Fragility would misinterpret them and cry, She was fragile, her feelings too easily hurt, It became such a problem no one wanted to talk to her in fear of setting her off again, One day she learns something about herself while being truly insulted,
Beautiful illustrations. Fragility the hippo is a solid piece of work, but her feelings are easily hurt, When she faces down the insults of Rudy the elephant, she learns to not only to defend her feelings but to accept a compliment, I have been using this with kindergarteners, who enjoy hamming it up while saying, "You hurt my feeeelings, . . " I just didn't get the book. I know too many people who look for reasons to overreact to the smallest things, so I didn't find Fragility half as funny as I was supposed to.
The part where all her friends just stop talking to her because they're afraid of her histrionics Bingo, That's what happens, and I thought that was supposed to be the lesson,
But then along comes the bully, who actually bullies her, and she gets all weepy until she manages to insult him back and make him cry, and then everyone realizes that.
. hurt feelings are bad
I don't know, I just didn't get it, Funny story about bullies and accepting compliments, Ok, so I definitely didn't like this one, I think it's trying to teach "Don't take things personally, " But sometimes people do say "nice" things in order to hurt someone, I know it's written for kids and a lot of people think kids can't get complex ideas, but when introduced well, they absolutely can, This is just the worst book ever, But the illustrations are great! ngga ada orang yang jahat, yang ada itu hanya orang yg kurang kasih sayang,
temen temen fragility memang bermaksud baikto compliment her tapi bisa aja ada penyebab yang ngga diceritain di buku yang bikin fragility malah tersinggung sama compliment mereka.
dan adanya respon negatif dari fragility, bikin temen temennya malah langsung ngejauhin, tanpa nyoba buat komunikasiin dulu, bary deh, pas rudy ngomong, fragility baru sadar kalo dia udah nyakitin hati orang lain : I love this book, It raises so many issues to think about, It lets us delve into sensitivity, rudeness, people trying to show us love, people purposely trying to hurt and manipulate us to get what they want, We see things that Fragility is good at, and things she struggles with, We get to see ourselves,
Talking Points Which end of the scale do you tend to be on, are you super sensitive and easily get your feelings hurt, or are you pretty rock solid about your worth and other's love for you What and who tends to hurt your feelings What can you do about that Who or what do you think you got your sensitiveness or your positive selfconcept from Have you ever been bullied What did you do about that
What are you naturally good at
Essential Oil Pairing Tips I think doTERRA's Adaptiv essential Oil blend is the perfect blend to diffuse when reading this book.
Sometimes things don't go exactly as we want them to go, Adaptiv can help us go with the flow, help open our mind to other possibilities, help open our heart to the love that others are trying to give us.
Try diffusing it or rolling it on, I'm guessing you're going to love it! Awww, the illustrations in this book were so cute,
Some kids are just born with extremely thin skins, Even things that wouldn't offend most people hurt these little ones deeply, Unfortunately, the only real remedy is for the kids to toughen up a little, That's the message of this book, Note: This does not IN ANY WAY encourage bullying or say that cruel statements ore okay, This is just about being overly tender, I like that. I'm notsure I like the way the elephant was dealt with, but it worked in the story, First of all, Fragility the hippopotamus is a drama queen, Established that, she is also very annoying, She has, as the title and her name indicates, very fragile feelings to the point of affectation, Whenever an animal in the jungle compliments her, she will twist their words into something offensive, It gets to a point when not even the characters in the book want to be around her, One day, when Rudy, the rude and bully elephant starts to confront her, that things change for the better for everybody, At the end of the story you think what happened is kinda funny but mostly, the annoyance of the main character is not worth it, Myyo and I agree, Four. A very sweet, funny book, Adorable illustrations of emotive animals, Not exactly the emotional problems we have in our house, . . which is probably for the best because I'm a little iffy on the methods used to solve said problems, Daniel Tiger this is not, I didn't much enjoy this book, The pictures were lack luster and often cropped to just a single character, the story was repetitive, and the lesson the book is supposed to teach could be difficult for some readers to grasp, as it is implied and not outright told to the reader.
The message, however, was sweet in that you can learn to take compliments that others give you once you stop comparing yourself to everything/ everyone else.
Best suited for aonread, Despite liking the illustrations instantly, I wasn't sure if I was going to like this book when I started reading, Fragility the hippo's feelings are a bit annoying in the beginning, The other animals must feel the same way, The turning point is when Fragility becomes, "a big solid piece of loneliness, " I laughed out loud at that, The word "loneliness" is on its own page and so it's perfectly emphasized, I really like the book after that, I don't know if I'd like it for children, Insulting others should never be okay, Even so, it could bring an interesting discussion, Fragility hurts rude Rudy's feelings, helps him feel better, and ends up helping herself, She seems to learn how to receive compliments, Fragility the hippopotamus was stout and solid on the outside, but anytime a compliment was bestowed on her, Fragility's feelings would be hurt, During a game of soccer and while defending the goal, Rudy the bully approached Fragility not with compliments, but with rude insults, and the outcome was startling, Fragility was a solid piece of work, But despite her sturdy exterior, Fragility was fragile, Anything and everything hurt her feelings, In the most benign compliment, Fragility heard an insult, No one could even say she looked nice without evoking images of big, squishy cupcakessince they are also niceand causing Fragility to flop on the ground and weep.
Fragilitys friends stop speaking to her for fear of another fit, but Rudy, a very rude bully, has other ideas, In the face of real insults, will Fragility finally learn to take a compliment
Featuring bonus audio! Fragility the hippo may be strong, but her feelings are soft.
Rude comments could hurt her feelings so fast, but she sometimes views insults as compliments, The other animals try to avoid her because of it, She eventually stands up to an Elephant without collapsing nervously, This book can be funny at times with cheerfulness, This will be a good book to introduce feelings and how to deal with them maturely, Helen Lester is the author of many childrens books, Her background with children includes being a mother of two and a former elementary school teacher of ten years, While at home with her children, Helen realized the importance of quality childrens literature, Helen started her writing career as a struggling author facing many rejections by publishing companies, Her first book was finally published in, Helen Lester is a full time writer who makes her home in New York, .
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