Snag Your Copy Instant Persuasion Constructed By Laurie Puhn Supplied As Audio Book

Persuasion is a unique communication book that offers a creative way to reduce stress, resolve conflict, and enrich our relationships with family members, friends, and coworkers.
Laurie Puhn cleverly translates complex mediation skills into simple, practical communication rules that readers can easily apply to everyday situations in order to instantly persuade others to listen to, cooperate with, respect, and like them.
The rules are revealed through reallife anecdotes that show readers how saying the right words at the right time can convince others to give them what they want.


Some Instant Persuasion rules are:

find factual solutions
be a problem solver
disagree without being disagreeable
beware of uncomplimentary compliments
avoid superficial offers

Puhn presents readers with a script that will allow them to smoothly implement these rules in everyday life and change the way they communicate forever.
Instant Persuasion is an amazing tool that has the power to transform friendships, marriages, and careers, This book was written by a lawyer who had mediation experience and noted a few things parties could do in discussions that would reduce conflict.
She then created a trademarked system and went on the speaking circuit selling it that is the contents of this book, Each chapter contains a “communication blunder” and its corrective, a “communication wonder, ” Communication blunders include offering to do things you dont really want or intend to do, expecting others to read your mind, or to focus your words only on what someone did wrong.
She includes examples, some of which are rather contrived, usually from stories or experiences with friends from college,

Much of this book could be summed up as basic social skills, It is not a guide to major influence, conflict resolution, and is nothing like other books by psychologists in “persuasion science” who include biological explanations for why things work.
Her advice differs from what you might find in a book like Crucial Conversations such as “Before you give someone criticism, whenever possible preface it with a sincere compliment.
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Its mainly a collection of her observations, Some of us need more help with basic communication skills than others, and I did make highlights on a few key points my paraphrase:

Dont withhold a compliment until someone else is around, spread it like gossip and dont hesitate to praise a person in front of others.


Dont make a complaint without also stating a proposed solution,

Dont apologize by saying “Im sorry,” say “I'm sorry for being late and upsetting you, Next time, I will set an alarm so I am here on time, ”

If you tell a person “Ill try,” or “maybe” then they probably hear “yes” and expect results, Its a blunder not to follow up ASAP,

Before you disagree with someone's opinion, ask, “What are your reasons for saying that” before you respond,

When someone is disclosing something personal, be sure to ask “Is this confidential, to be kept just between us”

If you feel you need more advice like this, by all means, get the book.
Otherwise, pass.

In all, I give this bookout of, I appreciated the reminder of how to persuade people, . . but there is no such thing as instant persuasion, Persuasive thought takes time to develop and time to persuade, Panduan praktis bagaimana berkomunikasi dengan baik dan membangun relasi dengan orang lain, Sangat membantu dalam belajar memahami orang lain, berkomunikasi tanpa menyakiti orang lain, dan berkomunikasi yang baik untuk mendapatkan apa yang kita inginkan atau ingin orang lain perbuat untuk kita.
Panduan dalm bentuk cerita yang mudah dimengerti, Sangat bermanfaat . A bit dry, a little common sense, but very helpful! Got this book out from my local library and I voluntarily racked upin fines to hold onto it.


If you believe in continuosly trying to improve yourself, you should probably pick this up every few months for a quick reread,

In short, to prove I learned lessons from the book, I'm going to avoid ambiguity and comparisons and just give this book a positivestar rating.
Buku ini bagus baget, di dalamnya dijelaskan contohkeseharian bagaimana kita bersosialisasi dengan orang, coba deh baca insya Allah berguna :, Good tips, could be much shorter, Wish it gave more positive examples of what to do rather than multiple stores about how not to handle situations, It's probably just not the right book for me at the moment, whst I perceive to be common sense or common courtesy, is apparently "persuasion " ok.
hood for the general populace to read and be able to tell what they're doing wrong The first nonfiction book I bought when I was in junior high school.

I tried what this book says and actually it really worked and still reliable until now, This wasn't a BAD book, but I felt it was mismarketed, I was hoping it would include tips on persuasion in the marketing sense, but there was nothing on that front, It's not really about persuasion it's more about good communication, Hints such as making sure you respond to emails, only ask for favors when you have earned them, don't offer unsolicited advice, and don't make empty offers aren't really going to help you be more persuasive, but they certainly will smooth over your personal interactions.


A lot of it was common sense, but it's always good to have reminders, And the author's descriptive anecdotes made it easy to see how each tip could

be put into use easily and naturally,
Indonesia, terj An easy and inspiring book, If you want to improve your relationships, this is it, I can wholeheartedly recommend this book, It is a quick and easy read that is packed with really good communication skills, The examples make it very clear how what we say and the way we say it makes a huge impact on others as well as our own lives.
Author of the new book, Fight Less, Love More:Minute Conversations to Change Your Relationship without Blowing Up or Giving In Rodale, Oct,, Laurie Puhn, J. D. is a Harvard educated attorney and couples with a private practice in New York City, She is an author, national speaker and television personality, who regularly appears on Fox News Channel and other networks where she offers expert relationship insights and advice on newsworthy dating, marriage, family and divorce issues, along with reports on the latest relationship research.
Her first book, Instant Persuasion: How to Change Your Words to Change Your Life, was nominated for Best Motivational Book ofby the MS Societys Books for a Better Life Awards Program.
It Author of the new book, "Fight Less, Love More:Minute Conversations to Change Your Relationship without Blowing Up or Giving In" Rodale, Oct,, Laurie Puhn, J. D. is a Harvard educated attorney and couples with a private practice in New York City, She is an author, national speaker and television personality, who regularly appears on Fox News Channel and other networks where she offers expert relationship insights and advice on newsworthy dating, marriage, family and divorce issues, along with reports on the latest relationship research.
Her first book, "Instant Persuasion: How to Change Your Words to Change Your Life," was nominated for Best Motivational Book ofby the MS Society's Books for a Better Life Awards Program.
It is a Book of the Month Club and Literary Guild selection, Laurie's articles have been published in many national magazines including Real Simple and Good Housekeeping, Her interactive website is sitelink www, lauriepuhn. com and she writes a relationship advice blog for parents at sitelink www, expectingwords. com" sitelink.