Get Your Hands On Los 5 Lenguajes Del Amor De Los Ninos / The Five Languages Of Love For Children Designed By Gary Chapman Available Through Document

I realized that I wasn't meeting each of my children's individual love need, I thought my son's main love language was physical touch but it's also words of affirmation, This is so obvious in that he is always touching, always wrestling, and always in your personal space and now that I realize it he's also always asking if everything is ok, did he do this ok, am I all right and he is so happy after receiving positive words of affirmation from myself and my husband.
After reading Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell's tips, I began to incorporate more touch into every moment that I was near my son and a lot more words of affirmation.
Whenever he is near, my hand can be found on his head, his back, or engaging in learning manners such as shaking hands.
I have learned to use touch in all of his learning activities and his acting out has gone down considerably as well as his verbal skills have soared.


My daughter was a little harder to discover but I quickly discovered that her love languages are acts of service and time.
She wants to be with you yet she wants to do something with you, Playing games with her, baking with her, doing crafts with her, and even cleaning or doing laundry together are all reaching her needs.
She also loves to work on Punky Monkey Misisons projects together like crocheting, passing out Blessed to Bless bags to the needy and taking food to the homeless.


As a mom, I found that TheLove Languages of Children was one of the best books I could have read.
I wish I would have had this as a new mom! Gary Champan and Ross Campbell use biblical principles, personal illustrations, and personal application to really open up your eyes to your child's needs.
I highly recommend this book to any parent new or old, It might just be the charge your family needs to go from average to exemplary, If every child had their love languages met just think of what a better place we would live in.


The concept of the five love languages is very inspiring, and it was fun to figure out which is the best way to express my love to each of my kids.
Of course its not that simple, not that black and white: they just like everyone else are multilingual, The five love languages may seem oversimplified, and some examples fabricated, but the book has its merits, Its about love after all, Now that you know my love language, will you use it against me Seriously, compartamentalizing love into five expressions is a bit limited.
To some it may help to understand why those "special" people don't meet our expectations, and how to accept their love expression even though it may not mean much to my love language receptor.
I was one of the unusual ones that couldn't figure out my love language, . . sort of like those personality/gift tests dinc that put me in the "I don't know" range, Just think how frustrated my wife must be! Maybe there aremore love languages out there we have not discovered yet.
. . With any book that's designed to help parents be better parents for their kids, it's easy to fall into the trap of defining the success of the book by whether its advice was successful in the reader's family.
The fact that every child is different is actually the highlight of this book, This helps people understand why two kids might react completely differently to the same gifts, the same activities, and the same punishments.
It has to do with how the people involved show and express love,

Most of the explanations from this "Love Languages" book were more instructive to me than the examples from Gary Chapman's main book in this vein, sitelinkThe Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate.


One problem: I expected this book to help with my toddler, In the book, Chapman and Campbell say that if the child is under the age ofthat I should just not try to figure out the love language.
They also say that parents should not discipline or punish the child with methods related to the child's love language.
E. g. , a child in dire need of Quality Time could be emotionally damaged by punishing them with isolation, This presents a problem: I am not to discipline in my child's love language, but I can't know what my child's language is until he's older Should I simply hope that my discipline tactics are not in the same language as my son's understanding of love

Sadly, the authors do not offer a solution to this.
It seems that the book is geared primarily toward schoolaged children, Still, the advice seems good and I'd hate to fault the book with a lower rating simply because of the Los Lenguajes Del Amor De Los Ninos / The Five Languages Of Love For Children's scope.
I wish the publisher had clarified the appropriate age range of the book in its list description, I am a blue, type A, ESTJ, who likes to be shown love through quality time, and likes long walks on the beach and.
WAIT, no I'm not. I'm Karen, a girl with lots of personality quirks, one of which is that I dislike pop psychology books that tell me I and everyone else fits into one of their created, ficticious descriptions.
I have to admit, I didn't even finish this book I did read almost all of it though, Probably most of us are familiar with the five love languages, they have enjoyed being very discussed pop psychology for the pastyears.
This book applies those same love languages to children, My issue is not with this book specifically, but with the idea in general, All this labeling, catagorizing, pigeonholing, and simplifing people, into tidy little groups, I know we all have similarities, but if you really want to love someone, get to know them, It takes time and effort, but that would be a better use of your time than reading this book.
This book is about exploring how your children communicate and how best to match your appreciation of that person to that person's preferred love language.


According to this book, there are five love languages, that is to say, expressions of love, Here they are:
gifts giving a person a present,
service doing something/a chore for a person,
private time spending time with that person,
affirmations expressing verbal appreciation,
physical touch snuggling, hugging, etc.


The Five Love Languages of Children was nice to have a reminder that I can express love for my children and it not be interpreted as anything but love.

I was all set to give this book at leastuntil the lastminutes of the audiobook when the coauthor, Ross Campbell, called his own daughter “profoundly rtrded.
” Seriously Now, I know this book was originally published in, but the audiobook I listened to was published in.
Youre telling me that inyears, you couldnt have gone back and changedword I know Campbell diedyears before this audio was published, but he was also a child psychiatrist and still used that word The other author is still alive and youd think between him and the publishing company, someone wouldve had the sense to edit.
I appreciate the aims of this book, My biggest worry as a parentor rather, ONE of my many biggestis that my daughter will not feel sufficiently loved/appreciated/proud of/etc.
Love was a complicated and fraught thing in my home growing up, which has led me to be overlyconcerned and ready to consume the books offered at the library in hopes of not missing out.


This is another one of those books that could have been covered in a nice article rather than a lengthy book and the elaborations seemed to treat the reader as if no interpretation abilities were present.
I think this will help most in conflict, which is perhaps the best place it can be useda reminder of what my kids might need more of at a particular time and how I might offer it to her.
She needs to feel loved and unconditionally and on all levels,

The implications of knowing a person's love language could be deep manipulation, which is a bit unfortunate.
Fortunately, I think my partnership would never resort to that, which I hope will carry over to my daughter and any future littles.
I appreciate the pointing out of how one must have a solid partnership and other good adult relationships in order to model and pass on good feelings and behavior.
And I think it's important to process anger and upset situations wisely,

But I find the pigeonholing a bit silly, Basado en uno de los libros mas vendidos Los cinco lenguajes del amor, este libro le ensenara a entender a su hijo de una manera diferente.
This was fine. I'm super familiar with the love languages, so I don't really know what I thought would be different about this book.
It was literally the exact same thing, just with examples pertaining to kids and then some thoughts later about how these apply to learning and discipline and so on.
It did say that in kids under, it is impossible to tell what their love language is, so in some ways major parts of the book didn't apply to me yet since my kids areamp.
It was good food for thought but nothing that will revolutionize my parenting or anything, أحلم بيوم يستطيع فيه كل اﻷطفال أن يكبروا في بيوت مليئة بالحب واﻷمان حيث يمكن لطاقاتهم النامية أن توجه إلى التعلم والخدمة بدﻻ من اﻻلتماس والبحث عن الحب الذي لم يجدوه في المنزل
هذا الكتاب يساعد في أن يصبح الحلم حقيقة للعديد من اﻷطفال ويساعد على بناء عﻻقات أسرية مستقرة وتطبيق قواعده تؤدي بالضرورة لنشوء مجتمع سليم عن طريق اﻻعتناء باﻷسرة من اصغر فرد فيها حتى اﻷب واﻷم والتي هي الأساس لمجتمع متوازن وقوي مراجعة كتاب لغات الحب الخمس التي يستخدمها الأطفال

جاري تشابمان

روس كامبل

وصلتني رسالة على بريدي الإلكتروني من الأخ خليل لمكتبة القراء البحرينيين شدني عنوان الكتاب وعلى الرغم من أنني لست

قارئة إلكترونية أن صح التعبير إلا أنني بدأت في قراءة الكتاب كلمة شدتني لنهاية السطر وما أنهيه السطر حتى يأخذني السطر الآخر بقوة,

لطالما أمنت بأن الحب هو نبض العلاقات هو روح العلاقات المؤسسة لحياة سعيدة ولأسباب كثيرة نعلمها أحيانا ونجهلها أحيانا كثيرة لا نوفق لتلك السعادة في بعض الفترات.

أتحدث الآن من قلب أم وقفت كثيرا متسائلة عن الكيفية التي تمكنها من الوصول إلى قلب أحد أبنائها متسائلة عن سبب غضبهم في اغلب الأوقات وكيف بإمكانهم التنفيس عن غضبهم دون أن يؤذوا المحيطين! كيف بإمكاني مساعدتهم وجعلهم قريبين !! ما هي أسباب كل ذلك !

أجابني الكتاب عبر فصول قائلا : عزيزتي أنك لا تتحدثين لغة الحب الخاصة بطفلك ففرغ خزان الحب لديه فتمرد في سلوكه ليلفت نظرك أنه يحتاج لملأ ذلك الخزان من جديد بالحب ليستطيع أن يواصل الحياة فبدونه الحب هو ضعيف من الداخل.

أحبهم جميعا وأحاول جاهدة أن أكون منصفة في تعاملي!!.

نعم ولكن تتحدثين لغة حب واحدة قد لا يفهمها جميعهم فهناك يا عزيزتي خمس لغات للحب

خمس لغات للحب وما هي!

التلامس الجسدي,

كلمات التوكيد.

الهدايا.

أعمال الخدمة.

الوقت النوعي.

فابحثي بين صفحاتي كيف يمكنك أن تتعلمي التحدث بتلك اللغات جميعا وكيف تكتشفي لغة الحب الخاصة بأبنائك فكل إنسان يحتاج الخمس لغات ولكن هناك لغة واحدة ما تشعره أن محبوب.

تلك اللغات مكتوبة بكلمات بسيطة لأفكار متسلسلة تأخدك تدريجيا لإستيعاب الفكرة والجميل هو أرشادك إلى مراجع أخرى في حال الرغبة في الاستزادة النماذج للحالات الحقيقية التي مرت على الكاتب بحكم وظيفته كدكتور نفسي دعمت الافكار بشكل جدا قوي.

أنصح كل أم وأب وزوج وزوجة يتطلعون إلى حياة أكثر راحة بقراءة الكتاب.


لا انسى ان اتقدم بالشكر للجهود المبذولة في المكتبة الإلكترونية لتحدي القراء البحرينيين.

أمل سالم

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