Review To Love, Honor, And Betray: The Secret Life Of Suburban Wives Expressed By Stephanie Gertler Formatted As Kindle

authors interviewed women who had either gone through affairs or were thinking about having one and pickedto label AZ to illustrate the many faces of infidelity.
Each woman has a different reason for her actions and a different outcome, The authors don't judge the women, just present their stories in the women's own words, allowing the reader to take from the story what he/she will.


Completely fascinating from cover to cover, In the year of "Desperate Housewives", the topic is completely relevant, Anyone could read this book, yet no two would get the same message, Each story created new emotion in me, whether I hated her, sympathized, wondered why she ever married or despaired that she would never find true love.
One thing was constant my complete resolution to never find myself in their positions,

Fascinating and so refreshing to see the authors avoid the Dr, Phil approach! Bought this book on the,shelf at Barnes amp Noble, The first chapter was interesting, but sad, I didn't finish because the whole book was story after story of people who had affairs and why, I love reading about real life stories and all these short stories were great, It is hard not to be tempted sometimes and for these women to lay out the truth of the experiences they went through it was just a great composition of short stories.
Would highly recommend. This book has an interesting premise, Suburban wives, Mrs. A Mrs. Z, offer their stories of infidelity: some who are currently having affairs, some who already did, and some who wish they could.
Here is a book that offers a lot of stories told from the perspective of the wives, but it offers no real insight.
I understand that anything told truly from first person is going to have an unreliable narrator, but this book would have benefited greatly from input from qualified sources, such as therapists, attorneys, even people with theological background who could comment on the religious implications however, this is an unapologetic and nonjudgemental look at women who cheat.
Many of them are clear on the ramifications and the feelings of guilt, and still more seem to feel that their actions are justifiable and their husband's fault.
Because of this reader's inability to read this with a predisposition against anybody who can consider that decision to cheat, at a time when marriages and commitments are unfortunately disposable, it is not possible to give an unbiased review.
So I will just leave it with, if you feel strongly that there are always more honest options than cheating, you might want to steer clear of this book.
Are you an avid watcher of the TV Show Desperate Housewives You know the one where all the main female characters are having affairs with their gardeners , plumbers and handymen whilst their husbands go out to work each morning , its only a TV show we all say its not real , but what if it was.
To Love, Honor and Betray tells us the story of the secret lives that Surburban wives have once their husbands have kissed them goodbye and waved and driven off to work in their flash cars.
The idea for this book was developed over a night of drinks and discussions about Marriage, Two women ventured into the lives of a numerous amount of Surburban housewives titled in this book as Mrs A , K etc.
The book is split into three different parts we have the "Doing That" with stories like Mrs A who is a fiftyone year old who is having an affair with her handyman to Mrs C a fortynine year old who has had a numerous amounts of affairs and describes herself as Cinderella having to leave her affair behind when her husband comes on and as a

bit of CloakDagger stuff sneaking around.
To the "Been There, Done That" , these are the women that have had affairs and as we read some have been swept under the rug whilst others like Mrs O whose affair lead to her becoming divorced.
As we see women , having affairs can be damaging to marriages to the final chapter the "Would like to do that" these are the housewives who fantasise about having those romantic affairs with their gardeners.
So women out there , if you have ever wondered what it is exactly that it is some of these Surburban housewives get up to , this is the book to read , full of emotions as we read of these turbelent rides of Love, Relationships and Affairs, A great read for those who love those books that have mixtures of Love, relationships and those infidelities we all love to read of.
This book is a nonfiction version of authors like Jilly Cooper , Tasmina Perry and Louise Bagshawe, Tales of women who are having affairs, who had affairs, or who want to have affairs, interesting stories! La signora A non ha un nome, lei è la prima lettera dell'alfabeto, Però, il marito si chiama Charlie e l'amante Ronnie, Caspita!
La signora B, be', . . nemmeno lei ha un nome, lei è la seconda lettera dell'alfabeto, Non si sa il nome del marito, ma o, ma l'amante si chiama Rick, Ricaspita!
Neppure la signora C ha un nome, Anche lei è una lettera dell'alfabeto, La terza. Il nome del marito è Tom, quello dell'amante Brian, Riricaspita!
A questo punto delle altrelettere dell'alfabeto non m'importa di sapere,
fra traditrici a riposo, traditrici in azione, aspiranti traditrici,
Se capita in mano a Signorini ci fapuntate da far impallidire quella sulla nipote di Mubarak,
Scivolata sul titolo come su una buccia di banana,
Mi rendo conto, leggendo la seconda di copertina, che nemmeno chi ha stilato quella noticina, sapeva cosa scrivere.
Forse perché da scrivere non c'era proprio nulla, Tolgo il forse.
Sono finite le lettere dell'alfabeto, Tuttavia l'ho tradito e abbandonato,
Il libro, of course! : A provocative look at the lives ofmarried suburban women, offering a fascinating and nuanced portrait of marriage and infidelity.


Extramarital affairs are often whispered about behind closed doors, In this groundbreaking book, the doors open, Stephanie Gertler and Adrienne Lopez take an intimate and sensitive look at the lives ofmarried or previously married women who have either had an affair, are having an affair, or are wrestling with their conflicting emotions and loyalties as they consider the possibility of being unfaithful to their husbands.


The women are between the ages ofand, They hail from various cultures, races, professions, and economic levels, Most have children. Many crave passion, intimacy, conversation, romance, And when those things aren't forthcoming in their marriages, they seek them elsewhere, To Love, Honor, and Betray never judges: It provides candid conversations, rendering women's lives in ways that are surprising and moving, while offering remarkable insight into the complexity of longterm relationships.
It's the book that women have been waiting for, .