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well written introduction to the concepts of shame and guilt, My only quibble would have liked to have seen some handson recommendations on how to cope with shame, "It is my feeling that debilitating shame and guilt are at the root of all dysfunctions in families,” says Jane MiddeltonMoz.


A few common characteristics of adults shamed in childhood:
You may suffer extreme shyness, embarrassment and feelings of being inferior to others.
You dont believe you make mistakes, you believe you are a mistake,

You feel controlled from the outside and from within, You feel that normal spontaneous expression is blocked,

You may suffer from debilitating guilt you apologize constantly,

You have little sense of emotional boundaries you feel constantly violated by others you frequently build false boundaries,

If you see yourself in any of these characteristics, you can learn how shame keeps you from being the person you were born to be and how to change that.
Shame And Guilt describes how debilitating shame is created and fostered in childhood and how it manifests itself in adulthood and in intimate relationships.
Through the use of myths and fairytales to portray different shaming environments, Dr, MiddeltonMoz allows you to reach the shamed child within you and to add clarity to what could be difficult concepts,
Read Shame and Guilt youre worth it, I found this book incredibly relatable and very easy to understand, The author was able to relate and seperate guilt from shame through fairy tales and short dialogues as well as life experiences that helps your average reader understand and come to terms with their own shame and guilt.


As someone who has been in therapy for many years, MiddletonMoz was able to list out some behaviors and habits that even I was unaware of or unable to label! I think despite it being an older book being published init holds a great deal of insight that is relevant still.


My only complaint is that the reader was given few 'solutions' to certain behaviors and it was not always explained if something was simply a pattern that should be worked through, or one that was a character trait/less changeable.
So really, I wanted more! I have questions but not enough that I felt the book was unfinished, but that a second book may be useful to treat shame and guilt now a reader understands them thoroughly.
Extremely helpful to put labels on feelings and patterns This book was great at showing the symptoms and causes of shame and guilt in adults raised in abusive environments, but it leaves you hanging at the end.
It shows you there is a problem but doesn't give you any where to turn for help, Recommended by my counseling supervisor for an understanding of the concept of shame while working with trauma but applicable to broader populations, as well.
Could be a good resource to recommend to clients but should be worked through in the course of therapy, as it is likely to trigger shame responses but offers no steps for coping with those responses.
This short read brought up the symptomsthe undeniable signsof debilitating shame and guilt, but I have to wonder, . . if you're entrenched in these behavioursif this is 'normal' to youthen how effective is any of this, anyway Interesting concept, drawing the truth from classic fairy tales, yet where is the resolution Yes, it really is as simple as attention: spoiler alert, "When I was early in my awareness of my shamebased history and was emotionally kicked, I would try to figure out why the other was injuring me.
Later in the process, when emotionally kicked, I would seek out others who felt as wounded as I was, Now when I'm emotionally kicked, I tell the kicker to stop and if they won't, I remove myself from their proximity.
Then I seek out those I love and who in turn love me so that I can share my feelings and ask for comfort.
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ISOLATION IS DANGEROUS, Reach out learn whom is capable of your trust expose the lies that demand to stay hidden, An exploration of methods for healing would've added a star or two to this Shame Guilt's crown, This short book looks into a complex topic of human shame and guilt, In particular, how debilitating shame and guilt may potentially occur, how two are differ, how such feelings effect our existence in the world And consequently the book addresses the importance to acknowledge and to deal with guilt/shame if we wish to have a healthier life.

Personally, after reading this book, I noticed that I was able to recognise types of shame in a movie characters.
I guess in a way it did help to open my eyes on different behaviour and subtle signs that may lead to shame any human being.

I would recommend this book for people who are interested in psychology and looking to get a quick understanding on the topic.
Or/and any childadult individual, Explained the difference between shame and guilt, but didn't give much advice for working on either problem, Interesting, but not very helpful, Very thorough in the problems caused by childhood shame, Unfortunately, there was very little about two pages worth advice regarding how to recover from the effects of shame, Great for adult children of abusive parents Definitely staying on the book shelf for reference! Quick, but though provoking read, A good intro into the subject, I will be looking for more indepth books on the subject,
Shame can be a debilitating emotion if it is learned as a child and never expressed, We tend to hide our shame and transfer the intense feelings into guilt, anger, fear, This book is pretty great if you have any history of being shamed and resulting guilt problems, Think if you ever had parents or a significant partner in your life who constantly put you down, expected you to live up to unrealistic expectations, and made you feel like you had no value.
Particularly if this happened in childhood when you had little in the way of skills for dealing with that sort of treatment.


The book is written in a fairly easy to read format with "fairy tale" examples that are pretty clear on all of the concepts and help to keep the text from becoming too dry.
My only complaint is that parts of it are a little repetitive,

It has helped me to see how my childhood affected the way I relate to people in adulthood and made some of my least healthy behaviors both much more evident and

also something I can understand instead of feel ashamed of.


Great therapeutic book, This slim volume packs a wallop if you experienced a shamebased family of origin as I did, The title was recommended when I asked an occupational therapist about identity formation, After reading the book, I wouldn't say it is about identity formation, but MiddletonMoz outlines the experiences and traits of debilitating shame and debilitating guilt in straightforward prose.
Her use of fairy tales did not resonate with me, however, I wept my way through several passages, I knew my family of origin had enmeshment issues, but had not, until now, realized how much of my childhood was shaped by shame.


Once I realized just how deep I was in the woods, so to speak, I expected the writer to spend more time leading me out again.


Insightful and clear, Helpful but lacking actionable steps to resolve shame issues, I wanted more. I've always been a little confused about the difference of Shame and Guilt and this book helped clear it us some!! Jane Middelton Moz is an internationally known speaker and author with than forty years of experience in consultation, training, and community intervention.
She is the director of the Middelton Moz Institute, Ms. Middelton Moz has served on the Board of NACOA National Association of Children of Alcoholics and the Advisory Board of NANACOA National Association of Native American Children of Alcoholics.
She has a Masters degree in Clinical Psychology and has held numerous direct service, management, and executive positions in large non profit corporations and community agencies.
Skilled at meeting the particular needs of an organization, Ms, Middelton Moz is a dynamic keynote presenter and is known for her highly successful hands on Jane Middelton Moz is an internationally known speaker and author with than forty years of experience in consultation, training, and community intervention.
She is the director of the Middelton Moz Institute, Ms. Middelton Moz has served on the Board of NACOA National Association of Children of Alcoholics and the Advisory Board of NANACOA National Association of Native American Children of Alcoholics.
She has a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology and has held numerous direct service, management, and executive positions in large non profit corporations and community agencies.
Skilled at meeting the particular needs of an organization, Ms, Middelton Moz is a dynamic keynote presenter and is known for her highly successful "hands on, participant driven " workshops, She is recognized for her work in the areas of adult children of alcoholics, multi generational grief and trauma in individuals, families and communities, ethnic and cultural awareness, anger, cultural self hate, differential diagnosis, values in the workplace and in families, empowering employees and creating positive work place environments.
Ms. Middelton Moz has appeared on national television shows including Oprah, Maury Povich, and Montel Williams, on the Discovery Channel, and has had her own PBS special.
She has also been quoted in US News and World Report and The Washington Post business sections on issues related to the high cost of negativity, bullying, mobbing, and unhealthy anger in the workplace.
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