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points were reminders. I will read this again to help in areas that I fall short and would like to make strengths The book givestips to being more assertive, and about halfway through I realized that I am not as "nice" as I thought.
Some of the tips made me think, "Really You need to tell somebody that" But what I DID take away from this book and why I would recommend is because of one message it really drove home: Make it work for you.


I can, at times, be a bit of a martyr, I'll take on too many projects, I'll go out of my way to do things that just don't "work" for me i.
e. both inconvenience me and make me grumpy, This book really emphasized eithersaying no to things you can't do or more importantlybeing brave enough to ask for modifications so that things are easier on you.


Also, one of the last tips really struck home for me: live your values, When forced to pick my top values happiness in my work and financial security, I realized that I am not actively working toward making these things happen, At least not with enough vigor that I should,

I listened to this book via audio book, so I can't say what it is like to read but I think it was a nice way to start my morning and if you can download it you should.


This book had some good pointers and it was a fairly quick read, I would say that the first book was more informative and easy to read,
But this is still good, and by far better than other books that I have read in the same topic.


How I wish I could get this as an ebook, While the title is the cheesy, the content is not, The tips are practical and can be implemented right away, This takes a more holistic view of a woman's life compared to Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office, A more worthy read that touches upon family, relationships, and work, The way of life the authors present didn't appeal to me, Although there is a snide tone toward "nice girls," the favored "winning women" are put in an equally rigid behavioral straightjacket: always give more than you get in relationships, never be unpleasant to anyone, be fully present in each moment, accept and make the best of situations you don't choose to change, consider life as a series of opportunities to influence people and situtations to get what you want, etc.
the advice isn't bad, but often the outward expectations for the nice and the winning are similar except that the winning are to choose this behavior from rational selfinterest instead of to please others.
Just reading these many, many selfcontroled, calculating expectations made Yosemite Sam look mighty good to me, This book is about a coach named Frankel and how he teaches women to be at their fullest potential, He reached thousands of women how to be themselves and how to turn them into winning women, I really liked this book because it shows how many girls feel invisible at some points and these coaches teach them how to overcome that and how to be stronger.
This book has many chapters on how to help yourself if you feel bad about yourself or invisible, I think people who want a boost of selfconfidence should read this book because it can be very useful and can give great tips and recommendations.
I wanted to read this book because I wanted to see how other women feel and see if any of their issues could be relatable.
I really enjoyed this book,Interesting advice and tips, not just for females or "nice" people, I think everyone can take a piece of advice from this book particularly the communication section, Most of the

examples are a bit cheesy, but they get the point across and that's what counts, Honestly, just a good read for everyone, Very useful tips and tactics for reaching goals, building relationships, receiving help when needed, creating reciprocity, solving problems, and saying yes for the right reasons.
I really enjoyed this book, It is a great, easilydigested summary of problematic behaviors that many women have been socialized to have, The book not only explains the behaviors but then offers suggestions for how to change them, If someone picked up this book having never realized that their behaviors might be undercutting them, I'm not sure how effective it would be.
But for me, since these are issues I've been mulling over the past few years, it was a great way to take stock of my life and see where I was and wasn't achieving my goals.
I also highlighted a ton of passages,

I appreciated the nonaccusatory tone that the authors took, as well as the fact that they made it clear that they were working against societal pressures and norms, not some bogus "genetic difference" that women have or some other such nonsense.
This is a very digestible readthe chapters are short, and the language is clear, I sometimes had trouble keeping track of which tactics went with which main point I did not always think everything was tied together.
However, the tactics in of themselves seem like mostly sound advice, Horrifyingly depressing if you are a member of the 'nice girls' race, It is honest and spells out why a nice girl gets shafted time and again and some strategies to counteract that.
But will a nice girl have the strength to do it after decades of indoctrination shrugs knowing is half the battle, gijoe.
Offering the same brand of practical, noholdsbarred, expert advice that made Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office an international millioncopy bestseller, Nice Girls Just Don't Get It teaches us the skills we need to turn from a nice girl into a winning woman, not just in our careers but in our relationships, families, and everyday lives.


Have you ever felt invisible Taken advantage of Reluctant or unable to articulate what you really want If so, join the club.
The nice girls club.   Nice girlsthat's right, girlsare those  more concerned with pleasing others than with addressing their own needs and haven't yet learned how to overcome the childhood messages cultural stereotypes keeping them from getting their voices heard, their needs met, and the lives they want.


This book will turn those nice girls into winning women, That is, women who factor their own needs in with those of others, confront those who treat them disrespectfully,  maintain healthy and mutually beneficial relationships with appropriate boundaries and as a result, are happier and more successful in every area of their life.
 

In, Lois Frankel blew the lid off so many of our longheld ideas about gender and success with her bestselling Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office, which went on to become such a huge phenomenon, the term "nice girls" has secured a place in our cultural lexicon.
Here, Frankel teams up with negotiation expert Carol Frohlinger to bring this bestselling advice out of the workplace and provide a broader set of skills that any womanwhether a CEO or stayathome momcan use to win anywhere, with anyone.


Presented in the straightforward, digestible format that helped make Nice Girl's Don't Get the Corner Office an instant hit, Frankel and Frohlinger outline seven practical strategies andsupporting tactics that every winning woman should know.
By the time you've finished reading this book, you'll be able to:

 Get your husband to do his half of the household choreswithout being made to feel like a nag.

 
 Stop overextending yourself by taking on all the unpleasant tasks no one on your volunteer board, or your team at work will go near.

 
 Win an argument with your mother in law about who will be hosting Christmas dinner,  
 
 Have the courage to send back a meal that isnt prepared the way youd ordered it,
 
 Confront a colleague who is shirking responsibility or taking credit for your work,

 Convince a sales person to reduce a fee, waive a surcharge, or honor a store credit,

 Question a doctors course or treatment or request a second opinion, instead of simply going along in order to be a “good” patient.


 Firmly but politely bow out of an extravagant vacation to celebrate a friends birthday that you simply cant affordwithout feeling guilty about it.
 

And so much more,

A mustread for anyone who's ever felt taken advantage of by a friend or family member, unappreciated by a spouse or partner, or exploited by a vindictive neighbor or coworker, Nice Girls Just Don't Get It offers women the indispensable knowledge and skills to get the things they want, the respect they've earned, and the success they deserve.
The authors offer various tactics and strategies to help "nice girls" become "winning women", There are some great tips though after a while the comparison between nice girls and winning women gets old and becomes an unnecessary device to get the authors' point across.
Still it's a worthwhile read for women, The how to's of this book are logical and simple and, if incorporated gradually over time, will work toward a better sense of balance and boundaries in anyone's relationships, whether they are a 'nice girl' or a 'nice guy'.
The oversimplification of what a 'nice girl' is started to irritate me by the end, though, The constant comparison of the nice girl stereotype just got old and too broad to have much meaning,

The authors warn the reader not to take their suggestions too the extreme or too quickly, but rather slowly over time while trusting your gut.
I think that particular warning needed more emphasis than they gave it, since many people reading this are looking for an instant fix.
I think this book, because it is so straightforward and practical, might be perceived as such, but treating it that way may cause more problems than it solves.
It's a good book just didn't resonate with me as much as Nice Girls Don't Get The Corner Office, Lots of suggestions for dealing with a variety of scenarios make this a book that would be handy to have on hand for reference as various situations arise in life.
The work bookclub had recommended this one, . . found it at the library, and enjoyed the read, It's easily digestible and common sense the author's tackle the tension that can exist between being happy in your own life a "winning woman" and the various external messages we get to be a "nice girl" wherein we try to make everyone else happy, but ourselves.
So it seems tons of people think all 'selfhelp' books are lame but, This one was very handy, It even helped me be a little better at arguing, And far better at getting what I want! As well as saying what I mean more clearly, .