Access Rules For Dating A Married Man: How To Be A Good Mistress ~ An Essential Guide For Having An Affair With A Married Man Constructed By Guy Butler Presented As Mobi
handy little guidbook for those of us who may find our selfes playing the part of the "Other Women",
A will not comment on the morailty of such an arrangement I will only say that they do happen and it pays to be prepared.
I'm extremely interested in all things relationship psychology, including open/polyamorous relationships and infidelity,
But what you have to understand about this "book" is that it's a brochure at best, It'spages, but onlycontain text, The font is large, the spaces wide, so it amounts to perhapspages in Word,
It's a short essay, neglecting, . . well, EVERYTHING that could have been said to or about paramours,
I also miss any information on what makes the author credible, Is he just a successful cheater himself, knows plenty of women who are paramours or did he study psychology It does not appear he did.
You'll find advice to update your wardrobe, dress sexy but not revealing as a mistress, more ambivalent advice such as do anything he wants sexually/don't say no but also don't be a door mat, don't ever bring up his family, always have an open ear for your married partner, and surround yourself with friends and family without yet ever telling them what you're up to.
This is basically theth grade cheater's guide, and a Google search could have given you more and "better" advice,
Read Esther Perel's wellrounded book on infidelity, its causes, concerns, problems and chances instead, She writes about each character in such a set up, the husband, wife, as well as the paramour, all the while remaining nuanced and lacking any
type of hyperbole.
Interesting
There are a lot of very good things brought to light in this book, I understand a few things, much better, and even if I don't want to believe some of it would apply to my relationship, it probably is accurate and now I know what to do and not do!! THANK YOU FOR THE INSIGHT.
I really needed it right now!!! Seems like it was written in thes
Keep yourself fit and in good shape.
Always look your best for your married man! What on earth is this author thinking Have his favourite food and drinks stocked in your fridge for when he visits.
I learnt nothing but felt very much the weaker sex when I had finished reading, The ONLY reason I gave the book such a low rating was because it was way too short, I'm not "the other woman" but I thought I'd give this book a chance since I love psychology and knowing what's going on in the minds of others.
Turns out that it gave me an insight into what my spouse could be looking for or missing out on, so not just a "know how to, " book. If you want to be the perfect mistress and avoid the common pitfalls of an affair with a married man, then this book is for you!
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Women who are involved in an affair with a married man often have to walk a balanced tightrope between satisfying their own needs as well as those of the man with whom they're involved.
For most women, these affairs usually turn out to be nervewracking experiences meandering among emotions such as excitement, thrill, and the fears of rejection and abandonment.
This is primarily because these women often don't understand what her partner truly wants from her, emotionally, physically, or even psychologically, The biggest problem in such an arrangement is that one person often holds more psychological power than the other and it's usually the married one.
This particular imbalance doesn't typically exist to such a tangible degree in conventional relationships where both parties involved have equal amounts to lose or gain.
It is this imbalance which often leaves one or both parties confused about their roles and the dynamics in the affair,
The purpose of this book is to help you figure out exactly what your man wants and needs from you, and to help you to meanwhile enjoy your life while maintaining your own sense of integrity and selfesteem.
So, for all of you ladies who enjoy walking the spicier road of life, this book will not only help you fulfill your desire of becoming the perfect mate to your married companion, but it will also help you avoid the pitfalls that usually accompany such relationships.
Note: While this book may be targeted primarily toward women in heterosexual relationships, the lessons within it are equally applicable to men as well, irrespective of your sexual orientation.
Here Is A Preview Of What You'll Learn, . . Remembering Why Men Have Affairs Working On Yourself Being Around Him Discretion The Ultimate Watchword Taking Care of Yourself Much, much more! Download your copy today!
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